Talk with guys
Approaching a hot guy should be no different than approaching any other man but for most females, it is hard to approach a guy who they consider hot because some women are quite shy and awkward around them. You can let men know you are interested by listening to them, by the tone of your voice and the things that you say.
The initial contact is easy and all you need to do is to start a little flirting. Make sure you have a smile in your voice when you are talking.
It will come across very well and attract the guy you are after. You will sound like the kind of women he wants to know.
You are someone who is fun, exciting and sexy. Using a phone chat service is a great way to talk to new guys and to check them out before you make a commitment to meet.
Talk to guys
Get somewhere comfortable and private and work out before hand what you would like to say. Say something short and simple to start with and then when you make your choice of the guys you want to talk to, you can go for it.
If you are comfortable, it will come across in your phone conversation and make you more attractive and interesting. Once you know a bit more about a guy you can relax and be more yourself. One thing to do is to remember to listen to him and not to say too much about yourself unless he wants to know all about you.
To make yourself feel more comfortable, you could have some music playing in the background, not so loud that it interrupts you but just to let you relax a bit more.
Men love to hear women who are confident, happy and full of life. You will be alluring to them and they will want to talk to you and then, if you choose, hook up for coffee etc. You will soon find the things that you have in common and after all, this all about chatting with new people.
Relax and enjoy the experience.