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So here are some tips for making the exclusive talk a little easier and a lot less scary and sweaty. Sometimes we start important talks with an attitude of discovery.
Make a mental list of what you want from the relationship and what you need to find out to feel comfortable. Every relationship is different and evolves at a different pace.
This is not going to please your friends who are worried about you and want to protect you from broken hearts and STIs. Just be safe and speak up the moment you feel uneasy, because your feelings matter.
I know that it is so, so temping to get into a feelings talk over text. You have time to figure out exactly what you want to say, you can start crying or screaming without your partner ever knowing, and you can check your while you wait for a response.
This means that miscommunications are more likely and you or your partner might overthink it. A really safe way to begin is from a health perspective. So start with that.
Be prepared for the ghost. They may react really well when you talk to them and then slowly stop texting and trying to see you.
Ghosting is in fact the worst because it makes you question every little action you took—but know that there is NOTHING wrong with expressing your feelings. Winging it can get you pretty far in life, and if you feel confident in your improv skills then ignore this tip and carry on.
Sit down with a pen and paper, or with your BFF, and compose a rough outline of what you want to say. Home Chevron Right Love Chevron Right How to have the "exclusive" relationship talk even when it's really, really scary. How to have the "exclusive" relationship talk even when it's really, really scary.
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